We Should Be Friends
a community-building project
creating spaces for real connection in an increasingly disconnected world
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our story
We Should Be Friends began in Vancouver in 2021 with a simple mission: to create spaces for adults to meet and make friends in what felt like an increasingly isolating city.
After posting a TikTok about her own journey finding community after moving to Vancouver, Katrina Martin received hundreds of comments from people expressing their own frustrations and struggles with friendship and loneliness.
Over the last four years, Martin has organized and hosted nearly a hundred events — from casual park and beach hangouts, to pottery and ring making events, to pilates and yoga classes. She has organized thousands of Vancouverites into book club groups, and has even hosted multi-day camping trips to Tofino, BC.
No matter the event, the mission always remains the same: to foster friendship and connection, and create welcoming, inclusive spaces for all.
support our cause
All proceeds from merch sales go towards supporting the We Should Be Friends mission.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Our events are primarily designed for people in their 20s and 30s, and we warmly welcome people of all genders, backgrounds, and identities.
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Instagram will always be the first place we share events! (@weshouldbefriendsvancouver) You can also sign up to our email newsletter to stay up tto date.
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Not at all - most people come alone! You are welcome to bring a friend if you’d like, but guests are always encouraged to mingle and chat with everyone.
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Totally understandable—and very common. Our events are structured to remove pressure, with gentle prompts, shared activities, and lots of room to participate at your own pace.
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Some events include light structured mingling, but nothing intense or forced. Think natural conversations, not timed rotations.
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All events are non-refundable, as stated when purchasing. Ticket swaps are permitted, as long as all necessary waivers are also shared.
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We love partnering with community-minded brands and spaces! You can reach out via our contact page or directly via email to wsbfsocialclub@gmail.com.
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Book club sign-ups open seasonally (about 3–4 times per year) to help us form well-balanced groups. To keep the experience consistent for everyone, we’re unable to accept new members outside of these sign-up periods.
Stay tuned for the next sign up via Instagram or sign up for our newsletter!
